tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2294154635809719055.post6509084055177631125..comments2023-11-03T03:24:25.747-04:00Comments on Which Box?: hot topicsWhich Boxhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14223363075283823935noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2294154635809719055.post-46093331667235754702008-12-18T08:15:00.000-05:002008-12-18T08:15:00.000-05:00I am sorry that they are so disillusioned. I feel ...I am sorry that they are so disillusioned. I feel sad for your husband. I understand how it would be harder for him to accept separation from them. Is counseling anything they would ever consider? <BR/><BR/>And I am hoping the job market brings you something you like this year. Sounds like you have a few promising leads!CLChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08030787972960755420noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2294154635809719055.post-88912089195318699772008-12-17T20:27:00.000-05:002008-12-17T20:27:00.000-05:00It's funny, about 4 blogs I read regularly posted ...It's funny, about 4 blogs I read regularly posted about weight issues in a matter of a couple of days! Obviously this is something on the mind of people, especially at this time of year.<BR/><BR/>Once again, I have to say how sorry I am about all the drama with your in laws. It was terribly hard when I was going through similar stuff with my dad and his live-in girlfriend years ago. Dealing with self-centered people who are used to being cow-towed to is no fun for the one person willing to stand up and call the jerkoff ... well, a jerkoff.<BR/><BR/>I can say that while my family was never the same after what happened, once I grieved and accepted things for what they were, it got better. Because it's just terrible to always be on edge and know that no matter WHAT you do, it's somehow going to spark a fit that you'll be blamed for. So while I felt emptier in a sad way for awhile, eventually that turned into just feeling ... lighter. <BR/><BR/>I hope that happens for you guys, too.Wabihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00325505487775250447noreply@blogger.com